We belong to a great performance in this present world and all of us are part of it. Each person is born in today's world to help us see ourselves, just as we are here to help them. The gift of relationships is that they bring issues into the full light of the day, even though we would often prefer those issues to be hidden.
Our relationships are the mirrors that reflect our own personalities. That reflection tells us about how we perceive ourselves and what our hidden beliefs and attitudes are.
When we feel crazy about something and it comes from the people that surround us, the reason for that is that part of ourselves is connected deeply to it but we do not want to face it directly. Likewise, when we see around us things that cause our admiration or appreciation those are parts of the projection of ourselves finding a way to be expressed.
It is not accidental the reason why we cross our path with so many people and the key to every single interaction is respect for each other.
In this world, we have to be open mind in order to make contracts with certain people that will help us to accomplish specific goals and objectives. It may be personal or social. The contract may be in a support role to help someone else in their personal growth. Some contracts last a lifetime and others are over when the purpose is fulfilled.
We have to look for the deeper part that connects all of us, the deeper insights that will help each individual to reach higher grounds. Our interrelationship has to be profound as if this opportunity is the last one we will have with them. Always think about what kind of thoughts and feelings do you want to leave in them.
The way we manage the spirit of anger and other strong emotions and how we handle issues that make us feel rejected reveals our underlying beliefs and attitudes we have about ourselves. Overcoming them allows us to be more fully and complete in the knowledge concerning who we really are.
Many times we can feel so vulnerable in expressing our own needs and in order to protect us from that vulnerability we prefer not to let other people know how we really feel about something. In many cases those other people take advantage of the situation since we do not say what we really want or how we really feel.
We need to have an agenda to complete with our personal growth before we engage in a mutual and energized relationship with our spouse for the rest of our life. The best approach to grow is finding the spirit of happiness within. We have to focus in what is in our live rather than on what is missing. When we fulfill this agenda of personal growth, the human being that is destined to meet you will walk to you and you will feel ready to embrace it.
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