FATE AND DESTINY.

The definition of fate is that you can change it through perseverance and hard work whereas destiny is predetermined; therefore, it cannot be altered.
The past, present and future are all happening simultaneously or at the same time. From our perspective, the past is something that has already happened. The present is something that is happening. Like the past, the future is something that has already happened too. However, the future has infinite posibilities, which is why fate is not predetermined. Remember, the past, present and future are all happening at the same time. For you to understand how reality and fate work, you need to understand that the true nature of Time is simultaneous. The reason why we experience time in a linear fashion is due to the fact that we have not learned enough to the point where we can experience Time in a simultaneous state.
Scientific studies have concluded that when you travel very fast, you age slower. As you approach near the speed of light, the slower you age. This proves that Time is not constant.
Have you ever had a dramatic experience, such a car accident, where time slowed down and you are able to see your life flash before your eyes? Time slows down because your senses become hyper-sensitive during a dramatic experience, which allows you to process information faster than normal, causing Time to slow down.
Time behaves more like an illusion. It can speed up or slow down. Time is not linear. Matter also behaves like an illusion. That is why Time and Matter are considered born from the same nature.
The three forces of Creation: Love, Thought, and Consciousness  that reside inside us are proof that the rest is a mere illusion.
Love is not just a feeling. At a deeper levels, love is a harmonic conscious energy that attracts everything into oneness. It is a form of energy that is always vibrating toward balance and harmony.
Love is the powerful energy that holds the Cosmos together and is the fundamental thing that motivates Creation to creates things.
Thought is a force that has the potential of thinking within and upon itself, giving the ability of free will. It is needed to focus everything into existence. Most of us do not realize that when we use our thoughts, we are really preparing and projecting energy to be manifested into matter. We are creating our reality.
Thought is a subtle conscious energy that is more powerful than even the strongest nuclear weapon. Nuclear weapons are created by the use of subtle energy within the atoms. This atomic energy is very small and subtle but has the potential to destroy a planet. This is how powerful subtle energy is and thought is the building block of this energy. The fundamental definition of intelligence is nothing more than thought thinking within itself and observing itself.
In order for energy to manifest into matter, there must first exist thought to draw energy into focus. Thought alone does not effectively bring forth true manifestation. Thought needs certain energy forces to help transform it into expressions. One of this energy forces is emotion. Having strong emotional desires along with focused thought is the key to manifesting the desires at the energy level. This process draws in energy, and as the energy coagulates, manifestation begins. To truly use the power of thought, we have to understand first who truly you are. In Truth, you are a spiritual being embraced in a physical body. The essence of who you are is your soul, which has infinite potential. One of the simplest definitions of the human soul is a projection of thought. Each of us is a thought that thinks; therefore, our souls are conscious and self-aware. It is the most powerful manifestation force that we have and we have to use it wisely.
Consciousness is a creative energy force that exists in all things. In essence, it is an informational field of awareness and feedback that gives a sense of self. This field is conscious in itself and is made of subtle energy. It is a field of pure potentiality; thus, it has infinite possibilities and creativity. Through the power of consciousness, vibration and frequency is achieved. It uses both to create light to what is being expressed through consciousness. Your body and soul depend on vibration and frequency to function. Two of the most important things to know about consciousness are that it has infinite potential and it is found in everything, even in the 4 elements.
If you want to be happy in life, take responsibility and be in charge of your life so that you can take control of your fate. The Creator gave to all of us the precious power of free will. We have to use it wisely so that we can choose how to live our lives before our last breath.